Missing

Sometimes..it becomes an integral part of life. By this. I meant MISSING someone :(

Few people enter our lives and become special - Friends and Partners
Few are special right from the day we know them - Family

But remember.. none stay forever.. either we tend to move away or they move away.. none by choice.. but circumstances do not allow us to LIVE together.. Hey.. by this I meant just staying far off.. relations remain as intact as possible :)

Then starts the phase of missing... hmm.. people who are extremely busy.. even they miss someone or the other.. just that they do get time to miss but not the time to tell the one missed how much they are missed..

Some people who are missed don't bother.. they knowingly or unknowingly ignore the ones who miss them.. guess what happens to such people.. very soon.. telling you.. very soon.. they miss the same lot..

And then there is both way missing.... lovers miss each other.. parents miss children and vice versa.. etc..

So missing, as u can see, is everywhere..

But how can we do away with it ?? Nopes !! We can't avoid it !! Love doesn't allow us to avoid it. The day we stop loving..we will stop missing.. but can we stop loving ?? It is like can we stop our heart to beat whenever we wish ?? Certain things end with life.. So does missing...

Umm.. I miss a lot of people.. and few I miss a lot.. perhaps.. Ive made it a habit of missing them.. even if they r with me.. I miss them thinking how will it be when they r not with me.. :(

Missing people is crazy.. and being crazy is normal :)

When you have everything....

So yes.. once again.. about LIFE !! God has been really kind to me. Gave me everything I demanded. Sometimes I sit back and think.. do we actually  JUST get whatever we deserve or God gives us as much as possible :) But then that's a different story.


Was just thinking.. I have practically everything that one should have.. ya few things one shouldn't have - like extra weight :D But again that is a different issue. So ya.. I should be happy..  I mean really happy.. Good education.. wonderful family.. a decent job.. and money enough to waste also... Um.. for someone who wil look at my life from a distance.. yes.. will feel I have no reason to be sad.. :) And actually I dont have..

But.. I am feeling sad :( because who likes a perfect life ?? !!!

I miss those days when for a very small amount of money also I had to wait and used to be so elated once I could save the desired amount :) But today.. savings are cool.. and spending is cooler.. but what is missing.. is the real fun in spending the money.. hope you getting what I mean...

Next.. this sense of boredom.. in student life.. we learnt new stuff.. and lot of hard work was involved.. but today... we are no doubt learning.. but somehow.. that pressure is not there.. the one reading this might think m so boastful.. or may be i am a cribber.. but few will be able to relate to it... it feels great after you have faced and overcome challenges rather than just sitting and waiting for some challenge to come your way...


Then.. the worst thing.. being idle.. perhaps the worst feeling.. there are times when we want to be really idle but that is only after doing lot of.. i mean real amount of work.. but being idle after being idle :D is really boring.. and it kinda kills me.. not like I don't like it.. but only for a while..

So.. Life.. it gave me... everything.. and now I want it to modify whatever it gave me.. I wont like to lose any of it.. but can't accept in the same form.. Gosh.. change is what we want.. change is what we dislike...

Humans and Human nature !! God.. and actually.. God only knows !!

Mummy :)

Mummy !! :) The one who is responsible for my life.. the one who gave me this life...

She taught me everything possible.. everything she knew..

When I was a little girl.. and till date.. she cooked for me whatever I liked.. and never expected that someday even I would do the same..

She bought me many gifts to make me happy.. and her happiness always was attached with mine...

She taught me so that one day I could be well educated...

She stayed awake so that I don't feel lonely while studying...

She prayed.. prayed daily... and her prayers were always for me.. for my health.. for my education... selflessly she prayed.. :)

Today.. I feel guilty.. somewhere I have changed.. grown up.. her care seems too much.. I hurt her.. but she.. she smiles back.. I know she will be waiting for me exactly where I told her Good Bye.. for she knows.. her daughter.. needs her at every step.. no matter how independent I become.. no matter how much I try to hide.. I need you mummy..

I know you are not reading this bacause who don't access internet.. and I wont be able to tell this to you because am too shy.. but yes.. for others who can.. tell ur mummy.. you love her.. trust me.. mums just need love.. and love.. no gift..nothing.. our happiness..and our love.. this is what keeps them going..

I love my MUM.. and I am sorry for hurting her many times.. but I am happy.. I could apologize most of the times.. :)

WorDzz

A very important part of life - Words that we utter !!!!

Each one of us talk... some talk less and some talk more... and everytime we talk.. we use words.. some knowingly...some unknowingly.. some purposely... and some not on purpose... and.. these words.. have great impact on people... We should actually be careful with our WORDS !!

Words... if used properly.. could be a solution to loads of issues... and when used not so properly can give rise to real big issues...

Why is pen mightier than sword ?? Cz its all about words... Words can cause a war between countries... and words can also be the reason for converting enemies into friends.. this is the power of the WORDS !!!

Be it any occasion... say felicitation ceremony... words play an important role.... to felicitate someone words are the most important factor.. cz rewards are much more welcomed compared to awards....

Many people are very emotional when it comes to words.. as in.. one word here and there.. and dre world changes.. me too belong to the same category... :D

You wanna motivate anyone.. use proper words... you wanna console... again...the solution is words.... i mean... what would someone do widout words ?? Difficult...

Here... again... i am able to express my ideas on words only because i have words to support my ideas.... Thanks to the one who developed wordss !!!

ExpECtaTion

You are reading this article and you expect I'll write something that will make some sense. Right!!!!

So... expectation lies everywhere.. I wonder what people mean when they say 'Dont Expect'.. Expectation is a part of every relationship... infct expectation exists even if there isnt any relationship.. For instance... I meet a stranger... Dont I expect that he/she will behave properly ?? There is goes.. expectation... is always dre .

At times.. people tell me.. stop expecting.and I am like SHOCKED ... now... the explanation goes like this... I expect my parents to care for me... I expect my best pal to remain my best pal forever.. and the list goes on.. aint these expectations a part of life... I mean.. I have heard people saying they dont expect but the fact is evryone does and trust me there isnt any harm in expecting.

Again.. now..some must be wondering wht al am saying... Look.. Am nt asking u to expect that the star will fall if you want a wish to be fulfilled... cz that isnt any expectation.. that is a fancy...
But ya... expecting a good result is something ok :)

Loverss.... umm... dre is common saying..love widout expectation.. sorry to say.. it doesn't hold true... why wont I expect love from my partner ?? Why wont I expect him to give me time ?? Aint these basic needs of life ?? Arnt these wrongly termed as Great Expectations ??

I am a good student... and people who know me expect me to do well and may be it is the urge to fulfill there expectations I put in more effort to get better results.. Expectations have positive impact...

By this all i wanna convey is... please... stop asking people around to stop expecting .. first give up expectations form your end... but ya.. do think if giving up expectations will help you.. now... now.. there are varied range of expectations... and this topic is open to discussion but no arguements :)

Dreamz

Do we chase our dreams or is it vice-versa ??

Can dreams be reality or they are never meant to be so ??

What we see in our dream why do we at all see them ?? Is there any specific interpretation ?? Or is it a state of sub-conscious ??

What lies in the sub-conscious ?? I personally feel that if understood well our sub-conscious can create miracles. There are hidden truths in our sub-conscious.. I mean I feel so. These truths connect us with our future.. or may be reveal some unknown facts about us.

If anyone.. anywhere...can help me out with DREAMS.. please do so!!!

HaPPiNess

I say I am happy :) cz I dont find any sense in saying I am not happy. Will anyone be interested in reading sad stories? May be a few but the mass wishes HAPPINESS !!!

Happiness..as we all know..is a state of mind... for me it the state of my 'MANN'... I really cant be happy even after topping in my exams if a close friend of mine couldn't clear it... mind says be happy.. heart says.. dnt b selfish.

Some people believe that materialistic stuff bring happiness to our life.. umm.. to some extent it is correct.. i cant deny the fact that I feel very happy when i wear new clothes..accessories..and alike... but is this what we call happiness ?? Not realllyy... cz these things do not touch our soul.. and happiness felt by the soul is only when other souls around it our happy..

Now.. a child gets happiness wen he gets love from people around him... scold a child...and thn give him a choco... he takes time to frgt the scolding.. but hug him... and kiss him.. he'll forget in seconds... LOVE is the way to HAPPINESS....

Again... peace is another important factor we need to be happy... I have pounds wid me.. but i am scared of INcome Tax officers... hey..am nt at peace.. so evn pounds dnt bring happiness... I have my hrd erned money.. and clean money.. i am peaceful.. and yep.. I am happyy...

Company of loved ones... family...friends... bring immense happiness.. as these are the people with whom we can share our thoughts... and we know that with these people around life's easier :)

Happinness... I Love You.. Cz Happpppyy is what I wish to be... HAppiness is for what I look for... and it is for Happiness I wish to spread Happiness :)