Growing Up - not that cool

I am not happy today as I am missing my college days :( Growing up is not an option - it is a compulsion. It also means to be  having to live with the fact that those who were a part of daily life will not be the same anymore.

My best friend Niki moved on for MBA and I miss her dearly. Having talked to her after a month or so is making me miss her more and I am not liking this at all. Someone with whom I used to share my daily life is now near in terms of kms. but very far in terms of talks. None the less - the awesome friendship continues.

I remember how in school and college, meeting friends was like something I never thought of as it seemed so obvious. With school ending, the realisation dawned that we need to go on our ways to have a good career.
Luckily, with all the school friends in the same city and light college days, it was very east to catch up and have long phone chats.

Another set of friends in college and all so cool :) Awesome engineering days where the only definition of life was fun. College meant meeting friends, movies, and total masti.

Friendship day was a day when catching up with every buddy was compulsory. It was a time of Shiv Abhishek at my place and everytime I had to miss a part of it to meet my dearest friends. God never got offended as God knew this wont last :(

All these friends of mine are now far apart as I live in a different city. I grew up and realised I need to study more etc etc :( and now I am working :| but my beloved ones are far.

I miss them.. I miss being a teen ager.. i miss bunking college.. I miss you all

Why always THINK complicated ??

Here it goes !! I read something - like it - and enjoy it !! Could be that I don't like it. So ?? What should I do ??  Can comment how bad it is and why it was written or just let go as my words wont help it in any way or may be I am judging too fast.

Off late I've observed this - a simple post on facebook and you can see a long list of argument on it. There was a topic about veg and non-veg food. People came up with all sorts of arguments to support veg and non-veg. The thing was the topic did not stick to the actual matter but was dragged to some religious issues. And that is what is shocking !!! Please do not go to such an extent to prove your point that you start proving a different theory all together.

Also, wouldn't it be good to simply avoid such arguments ? Like i may prefer being a veg and someone loves non-veg. So instead of criticizing they being non-veg, I can as well enjoy the veg food :)
This is just one example.

There could be long FUTILE arguments on a movie as well - one person liked it and other hated it and they started proving their point. And trust me such waste of time arguments are ok once a while. For people who are making it a habit - STOP !! There is still time.

We all should learn to accept the liking  and dis likings of others as well. It is ok to hate something but you simple cannot compel others to do the same. Leave things for others to decide and respect their decision (sometimes atleast).

We should try and think simple and let things be simple :) It is okay !!  It is life after all and not just yours :)

Uncertainty

Well.. was reading my favorite author's book and was in a lovely mood.. suddenly heard the song 'lag ja gale...'.. and the mood changed completely.. Well.. I am in the best phase of life.. everything is so nice.. I had never expected such a nice life.. But ya.. suddenly i feel heavy thinking that nothing is certain.. simply nothing.. it took..merely one second.. my mood has changed completely.. i thought I'd be asleep by now.. but :) I am here writing... sharing this uncertainty !!!

The best and the wost part about life is uncertainty.. I believe this uncertainty keeps us going.. keeps us motivated to live.. for it was not like this.. and everything was known.. imagine !! Would you like living like knowing you are going to die on a particular date and such will be the events leading to it and also you would have no option of changing the course.. no doubt.. everything is destined.. pre-written as they say.. but still it is unknown to us.. this also makes us feel that we are...in some way.. writing our destiny.. I believe in both.. oh !! that is a different topic..

Wooh !! So uncertain is this topic itself.. proving.. that uncertainty is what life is all about.. truely justifying why I included this topic in my blog :)

Enjoy the uncertainty - it gives you the right to predict , imagine and all sorts of wonderful things - well it does make life uncertain too :D I do not know what to say !!

For me.. I am happy that life is uncertain.. this gives me a motive to love people now.. for i do not know.. what is in store next :)